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Self-esteem is an individual’s subjective evaluation of their own worth, as per Wikipedia.

Self- Esteem is feeling good about yourself, knowing you are doing well and believing in yourself. As a parent, how do you react to your child’s accomplishments? Do you encourage your child to try out new things? Do you make them feel guilty about their minor mistakes?

Self Esteem helps children try new things without worrying about their past failures or about their attempts that didn’t go as planned. A child with high self-esteem will face challenges rather than avoid them. Complimenting your kids makes them feel more confident about themselves. But constantly praising your kid will probably do more harm than good.

Self-esteem plays a vital role in your kid’s development, helping them Learn and Grow better as they explore the world. Here are some ways to effectively build your child’s self-esteem:

  • Let them decide: Kids often depend on parents for things they can do themselves. One way to build self-esteem is to give them the freedom to take certain decisions for themselves or choose between options. When they see the results of their decisions, they start developing confidence.                                                                                                                        
  • Celebrate being Unique: When kids play among other kids of the same age group, they learn their similarities and differences. Let them know that everybody is unique and that it is amazing.

Ask what’s unique to them and not how they are different from others. Weave positivity into their thoughts, make them feel good about themselves and accept people around them for who they are. Even if the intentions are good, avoid comparisons.

  • Step back at times: When kids are in a situation they are not accustomed to, parents often run to their rescue. That’s a wonderful thing to do, but not all the time. If you think the situation isn’t going to cause any harm to your kid, then watch your child from a distance and let them be.

Let them make choices, solve problems, make mistakes, and clean up their mess. With parents being overprotective, they will start depending on their parents for every challenge they face.

  • Learn to accept a ‘NO’: Give your kids a chance to says no. Agree to the decisions that won’t hurt them or anyone. Kids need to realize that their choices have consequences and learn to assert themselves.

 Learn how to say ‘no’ to your kids. Saying yes to everything they ask for will give them the impression that they can get away with anything. 

  • Perfection is a Myth: Allow your kids to understand that no one is perfect and no one expects them to be perfect. The way you react to your kid’s mistakes is how they will start responding to their own!. Make them feel it’s okay to make mistakes, and there is a next time.

 

Making your kids feel guilty about their mistakes will damage their self-esteem, making them feel less confident about themselves.

 

  • Praise Genuinely: If you praise your kid all the time, it might prove not to be much effective. Healthy and genuine praises help build your kid’s self-esteem

. They need to earn their honours. It should be a real, even if small, achievement.

 

We hope you enjoyed reading this insightful article and implement these simple suggestions to build your kid’s self-esteem.